Wednesday, 31 July 2013

You Need to be Happy

Nothing in life guarantee happiness. Is it money? It will surely finish. Is it fame? It will definitely fade away. Nothing remains for ever except the blessing of the Lord and his plans for our lives. You need to desire to be happy no matter how things are going with you right now. There is nothing you're going through now that will last forever and that should give you a reason to be hopeful and believe that it just a phase. One of the ways to be happy in this life, is one shouldn't hold any grudges against anyone. 
Holding grudges takes away happiness and brings Unlimited worries to ones heart. It deprives you of the joy of the present. It leaves one frustrated at the end of each day. Our heart is just like a flat bed, when you arrange it well. That's with good words, faith, good companies and great ideas with self discipline  You're able to move around on it freely and live your normal life. But supposed you dropped the plate you used to eat and every other dirty things on the bed. You can agree with me it will be very difficult to sleep on it. so also is the issues of our heart, if we feed it with bad thoughts, regrets, fears and failure of the past.
Our heart is a channel and the Major source of all our actions. The way we dress, Speak in the public, see others and carry ourselves is majorly controlled by the thought that proceed from our hearts. If you get rid of many dirty things from your heart, your thoughts will be pure and inspirational. You will be able to make good plans, help others, live at peace with others, Concentrate on what really matters and you will see things will be well with you. If you allow the table of your heart to be full of dirty things such as unforgiveness, bitterness, hatred, malice, worry/fear over the unknown, failure of the past and the likes. It will be difficult for you to be totally happy because those things will surely occupy your heart and will prevent you from pure thought. 
It therefore implies that, the first steps to happiness in this life  is to "let go of the Past" its not that you will not remember, but it means you don't allow it to have a negative effect over your present life. We all need to learn to forgive others and to forgive ourselves as well. In the places where we have failed or messed up. See you at the Top and do not let go of your happiness.
Best Wishes


Written by Oyebamiji. A. Stephen

Stephenson Event

Decoration by Stephenson event for Dr Akinwumi




Just for Christmas

Carol preparation

Couple's Dinner seat

Couple's Dinner Pictures. done by Stephenson Event

Monday, 29 April 2013

Life is Dyanmic


Life events are dynamic and nothing either good or bad last forever, therefore We must continue in the race of life and must not loose Focus, no matter how long it takes our expected changes to come. Truly nothing in Life is certain but with the help of him who sits above the world and who can determine the lots of every living soul. we are going to achieve that success and we are going to be happy. lets just continue in the journey and be full of courage since we know that nothing in Life is permanent or static. our levels will soon change and things will surely get better for us. For us to get the happiness and joy we desire we must be diligent and live above procrastination. Even if you have failed before give that task another try. I believe in you. 


  • Just endeavor to try something new in a different way.
  • wishing you all the very best.
  • Never give up.
  • Be courageous and fill your heart with good thoughts.

Saturday, 27 April 2013

stephenson: let everything you do be productive

Productivity is an evidence of a good living and a Focus life. A life that's not Focus can't be productive, For you to have a bright Future each seconds of your day to day activities must be productive. Anyone aspiring for the Top in Life must make every seconds of their lives count and productive. Nothing in life should be done without the aim of moving closer to our goals and desires in Life. Productivity should be our aims, goals and desires in all our interactions. In terms of what we say to others, and most importantly to ourselves , how we dress, what we think about ,and how we reacts to situations must be productive. We shouldn't just do things anyhow because we are special,and we have a bright future ahead of us. Special people are usually Unique in their activities and this must be our practice. Life is short and its events are very fast but the memory of it last longer. Which implies that we must be conscious of our actions.
Instead of saying things that would give you a bad day or you may later regret in the future, why don't you just decide not to say it? Instead of putting on a dress that would devalue your image and cost you some embarrassment in the public why don't you then decide to put on a befitting cloth right from your house and save yourself unnecessary insult and give people the strong reason why they should approach you well. The way we present ourselves daily has a lot to do with our lives tomorrow and how others would approach us. We are unique people so therefore we must portray ourselves as such. Give your Life a good image and never look down on yourself. Though your beginning maybe rough and poor let it not affect your Future and the way you live now. Most great people had rough beginning. So let not your background limit you. Start doing things right, with a purpose and with an expected end in mind. You are unique so therefore believe in your ability.
Take pride in your achievement and be determined to let all your actions be Productive. Don't just go into relationship with others especially with opposite sex without the desire of adding something good to their Lives. Let your interactions with them be productive. Live a life that put smiles on the faces of others and let them remember you for the good things you have done. Productivity is a symbol of a unique Life and you are unique so let your actions and interactions be productive.
Best Wishes
Written by O. A Stephen

Back and Better

It is good to let you know that i am back and better and i am trusting God to help me so i can effectively utilize my gift and make you happy more than you can ever imagine. In your pursuit in life, never relent or allow the situations around you to hinder you. you have the ability to reach the top in as much as you remain focus with your dreams. The strength to carry on is within you so please do not ever give up. wishing you all the very best. kindly tell others about this site and give your comments on any of our post.