Nothing in life guarantee happiness. Is it money? It will surely finish. Is it fame? It will definitely fade away. Nothing remains for ever except the blessing of the Lord and his plans for our lives. You need to desire to be happy no matter how things are going with you right now. There is nothing you're going through now that will last forever and that should give you a reason to be hopeful and believe that it just a phase. One of the ways to be happy in this life, is one shouldn't hold any grudges against anyone.
Holding grudges takes away happiness and brings Unlimited worries to ones heart. It deprives you of the joy of the present. It leaves one frustrated at the end of each day. Our heart is just like a flat bed, when you arrange it well. That's with good words, faith, good companies and great ideas with self discipline You're able to move around on it freely and live your normal life. But supposed you dropped the plate you used to eat and every other dirty things on the bed. You can agree with me it will be very difficult to sleep on it. so also is the issues of our heart, if we feed it with bad thoughts, regrets, fears and failure of the past.
Our heart is a channel and the Major source of all our actions. The way we dress, Speak in the public, see others and carry ourselves is majorly controlled by the thought that proceed from our hearts. If you get rid of many dirty things from your heart, your thoughts will be pure and inspirational. You will be able to make good plans, help others, live at peace with others, Concentrate on what really matters and you will see things will be well with you. If you allow the table of your heart to be full of dirty things such as unforgiveness, bitterness, hatred, malice, worry/fear over the unknown, failure of the past and the likes. It will be difficult for you to be totally happy because those things will surely occupy your heart and will prevent you from pure thought.
It therefore implies that, the first steps to happiness in this life is to "let go of the Past" its not that you will not remember, but it means you don't allow it to have a negative effect over your present life. We all need to learn to forgive others and to forgive ourselves as well. In the places where we have failed or messed up. See you at the Top and do not let go of your happiness.
Best Wishes
Written by Oyebamiji. A. Stephen
